Sabtu, 26 Februari 2011

See the reality behind the Eyes of Adopted Children from Haiti




Nach dem Erdbeben in Haiti vor einem Jahr gab es einen Skandal um die Adoption haitianischer Kinder: Verschiedene Organisationen, darunter US-Missionare, hatten vermeintliche Waisen aus dem Land bringen wollen, obwohl sie Eltern hatten. Wir zeigen Bilder von haitianischen Waisenkindern, die bereits vor dem Erdbeben adoptiert worden waren. Erst Ende 2010 wurden diese Kinder von ihren Adoptiveltern nach Frankreich geholt. Das Chaos nach dem Beben und die Cholera hatten das Verfahren verzögert


After the earthquake in Haiti a year ago there was a scandal surrounding the adoption of Haitian children: Various organizations, including U.S. missionaries, alleged orphans wanted get the chldren out of the country, although they had parents. We show pictures of Haitian orphans, which had been adopted before the earthquake. Until the end of 2010 were brought these children from their adoptive parents in France. The chaos after the quake and the cholera had delayed the process

Jumat, 25 Februari 2011

Adoptions from Ethiopia incompatible with the fundamental principles of German law

Ethiopian adoptions: German Higher Regional Court denies recognition

On 31 May 2010 the German District Court of Düsseldorf ruled that an Ethiopian adoption may not be accepted under German law, as it is obviously incompatible with the fundamental principles of German law, in particular with the fundamental rights. This decision was was appealed by the adoptive parents.
On 18 January 2011  the German Higher Regional Court (Dusseldorf) confirmed this ruling. This cannot not be appealed.
The ruling was based on the fact that article 21-b of the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child was not complied with, meaning that a child may only be transferred for adoption into a foreign country and into another culture, when all avenues have been exhausted for the placement of the child in his own family and in its own country.
Article 21
States Parties that recognize and/or permit the system of adoption shall ensure that the best interests of the child shall be the paramount consideration and they shall:
[...]
(b) Recognize that inter-country adoption may be considered as an alternative means of child’s care, if the child cannot be placed in a foster or an adoptive family or cannot in any suitable manner be cared for in the child’s country of origin;
Additionally, the appointment of new (adoptive) parents further requires that they have factually grown into the role of the failed parents, so in terms of German law that between the child and his new parents and vice versa, a parent-child relationship has been founded or its formation can be expected.  Therefore, the personality right of the child has not sufficiently enough been respected, as far as before the adoption no initiation of a parent-child relationship took place, which for practical reasons (visa handling ) should have taken place in Ethiopia.
For the full text (informal translation):

Selasa, 22 Februari 2011

Spanish mother reunited with daughter she was told had died at birth


Spanish dictator General Francisco Franco (left) gives a certificate to a family in Madrid in 1942.

For many years, parents were awarded for having large families. Baby-stealing is alleged to have begun during Franco's long rule. Photograph: AP

A Spanish mother has been reunited with her daughter four decades after being told
the child had died at birth. It is the first proven case in a growing scandal over babies stolen
by Spanish hospital doctors and sold for adoption.
A DNA test proved the blood tie between the two women after the daughter hired private detectives to trace her biological mother.
"The adoption was legal, with her birth certificate saying she was 'adopted from an unknown mother'," Antonio Barroso, the head of an organisation investigating cases of missing babies, said.
The mother was left to mourn her baby after being told she had died at birth in a Barcelona clinic. "The doctors told her that her daughter had died. She even has the death certificate," Barroso said. "We went to a laboratory and the result left no doubt. It is only now that the girl has seen her own death certificate."
Barroso said mother and daughter – who have asked not to be named – were reunited in December and the case had since been passed on to the attorney general's office.
Another spokesman for the group, Juan Luis Moreno, told El Pais newspaper that the mother had always suspected her child had not really died, but hospital authorities in Barcelona had told her they would take charge of burying the baby.
Many of those now seeking lost babies are women who never saw their baby's corpse because hospitals said they would take charge of burial.
Barroso's organisation has asked the attorney general to investigate several hundred cases of illegal adoption.
The attorney general agreed to co-ordinate the different investigations that will be carried out by prosecutors at a provincial level.
Barroso said the case opened up the possibility that many children who were adopted in circumstances that may have seemed legal at the time were actually stolen.
These would be added to existing cases where adopted children were apparently registered as the biological children of their adoptive parents.
Barroso helped found the group after discovering that his own parents had paid an intermediary who produced children for adoption from a hospital in Zaragoza.
The cases go back many decades. Although they began during the dictatorship of General Francisco Franco, they seem to have carried on after his death in 1975. On Tuesday, the Catalan Republican Left party will ask Spain's parliament to aid those seeking lost children, with the creation of a DNA bank to help them.

RACE DOESNT MATTER ?

Katharine Birbalsingh

Katharine Birbalsingh is the teacher who exposed the failings of the comprehensive school system at the Conservative Party conference this year. Her speech can be seen here. She is now looking for a job. Katharine has been teaching in inner London for over a decade and loves children. This is a resurrection of her popular blog, To Miss with Love, where her name was Snuffy. Her book, also called To Miss with Love, comes out in April 2011. Follow @Miss_Snuffy on Twitter to see what Katharine's doing now. Katharine's personal website iswww.katharinebirbalsingh.com.

Michael Gove's adoption guidelines may not satisfy 'race oriented' social workers. But they'll do wonders for children

Ethnic minority children usually wait three times longer to be adopted than white children (Photo: GETTY)
Ethnic minority children usually wait three times longer to be adopted than white children (Photo: GETTY)
Michael Gove is to unveil new adoption guidelines on Tuesday to say that race should not be a “deal-breaker” when adopting a child. In other words, white couples should be allowed to adopt black and ethnic minority children.
Until now, white couples have been unable to adopt British black or ethnic minority children, and have been forced to pay thousands of pounds abroad for the joy of adopting a child. Why? Because they’re white and there aren’t enough white babies to go round.
Social workers are so ‘race-oriented’ that when they receive an application they try to place a child with a family of the same heritage as that child. All I can say is thank goodness my parents were around when I was growing up. Otherwise I might have been in care forever. They would have had to find a mixed-race couple, one Indian, one black. I wonder if it would have been necessary for the Indian parent to be Indo-Caribbean? Or was it only race that mattered, allowing any citizen of India to have a go at raising me? I wonder if a Pakistani would have been allowed to adopt me?
It is completely absurd and yet this practice has been going on for years. As a result, ethnic minority children wait on average three times longer than white children to find a permanent home. And while they are in care, they wreak havoc on some poor school. Then we say it isn’t their fault: they’re in care. There are different rules at school for kids who are in care. They are given more leeway. They don’t get punished in the way that other kids are. And that, of course, just encourages them to misbehave all the more. I have seen a Head make a decision about a kid, and when realising the kid is in care, change his mind because he realises his hands are tied.
But the damage to schools and children doesn’t stop there. It has always been cool to be bad, and if one black kid is bad, then some of the other black kids will copy him. Even some white kids will too. So bad behaviour spreads. Then we turn around and say we’re trying to help these kids by ensuring that they’re with parents of matching racial background!
I presume the obsession with matching racial identity stems from the idea that ethnic children need to understand their position in the Western world as one of belonging to a minority group that is liable to face racism from time to time. But is it really impossible for a white family to understand this and pass their understanding to their adopted child? Surely the applicant’s capacity to give the child the right kind of love and support is what should be judged! After all, if this is a real issue, diversity training could be put to good use here.
The faster we get our ethnic kids out of care, the more likely they are to find harmony and love and the more likely they are to behave at school. This development in the adoption laws is a stroke of genius. Its results may take years to show, but its impact on schools will be immediate, not to mention how many children’s lives it will transform.
Once again, I look at what Michael Gove is doing for children and take my hat off to him. I clap my hands in glee and wonder how anyone could possibly take issue with this decision. But experience has taught me, where I see common sense and cause for jubilation, others see dark motives and corrupt intentions. I’m looking forward to what the opposition says about this one!

Kamis, 17 Februari 2011

USA - Another childmurder by Adopter

Source: Body In Pest Truck Likely Driver’s 10 YO Daughter

February 15, 2011 11:10 PM

The body in the pickup truck was identified as the owner's 10-year-old adoptive daughter. (Source: CBS4)


The body in the pickup truck was identified as the owner’s 10-year-old adoptive daughter. (Source: CBS4)

Reporting Ted Scouten

MIAMI (CBS4) –As investigators continue to piece together the mystery surrounding a pesticide truck parked along the side of I-95 in West Palm Beach that sent a father and son to the hospital, a senior law enforcement source has told CBS4 News the body found in a bag inside the back of the truck is believed to be the driver’s 10-year-old adopted daughter.

The girl was the twin sister of Victor Vocter, the 10-year-old boy rescued from the truck, according to the source. Now, the children’s father is chaged with aggravated child abuse, accused of injuring the surviving child inside the truck. “We can’t really specify,” explained police spokesman Chase Scott. “But an instance that occurred here on the side of I-95 with his 10 year old son, that’s where the aggravated child abuse charge stems from.”

We do know the child suffered severe burns. “He did suffer some burns from the chemicals that were on his clothes and his body as well as some internal issues,” said Scott, “some severe internal reaction to breathing in the fumes of the chemicals.”

The body remained on the scene until 8:30 in the evening. The strength of the chemicals made it hard to move the body. In fact, just to get it into the medical examiner’s vehicle was difficult. “I believe they tried to do a partial decontamination,” Scott explained. “Then the bag was placed into another bag, which was placed into another bag, then on the gurney and then placed into the vehicle for transport.”

One day after the disturbing discovery, it is still a very active scene near the Palm Beach Lakes Boulevard exit on I-95, except now several large tents cover the small red pickup truck where the body was found.

Chase Scott said while he could not say the body on the truck was not the twin girl, someone saying so now “would have to have x-ray vision”, because the body is still wrapped in plastic, surrounded by hazardous material, and has yet to be unwrapped as experts work to decontaminate the scene.

The discovery was made Monday when a Road Ranger stopped to assist the driver of what he thought was a broken down truck which had the words “C. J.’s Pest Control Miami” on its side.

When the ranger approached the truck he found the driver, Jorge Barahona, 53, of Southwest Miami-Dade, and his 10-year-old adopted son, Victor Vocter, conscious but having breathing difficulties.

Barahona was taken to Columbia Medical Center with a unspecified medical condition caused by the chemicals and the son was taken to St. Mary’s Medical Center. Both are said to be in fair but stable condition.

It was when firefighters on the scene also started feeling sick that a hazardous materials crew was called in to take over the investigation. In the back of the truck they found a leak in a container which contained acid. It’s believed that fumes from this chemical were what sickened Barahona, the boy and four firefighters. According to police, the chemical is not the type typically used in pest control but it is used to clean metal.

It was while the Haz-Mat team were looking through the truck that they spotted something unusual.

“The Department of Environmental Protection went into the rear of the vehicle, moving aside some chemicals,” said Chase Scott, spokesperson for the West Palm Beach Police department, speaking to reporters late Monday night. “(They) located a body in a bag in the rear of the vehicle.”

With the discovery of the acid and the body, Miami-Dade Police and Fire Rescue Haz-Mat were sent to Barahona’s home in the 11000 block of Southwest 47 Terrace in Southwest Miami-Dade to search for more potentially dangerous chemicals and possible clues as to why Barahona had a body in his truck.

Neighbors said Barahona regularly parked his truck in front of his home and kept a steel container full of pesticides on his property. Jim Sheppard said he never noticed a problem.

“He was always very cautious when he did his stuff,” said Sheppard. “He sprayed my house, and when he came in and sprayed my house he’d always put on a big respirator and ask me to step out. He’s always really cautious and careful about the chemicals.”

Late Monday, the FBI joined the investigation, though no reason was given for the federal interest.

According to state records, Barahona operated his business out of his home. Last week, he filed with the Florida Secretary of State to use the name C.J.’s Pest Control for his business. The Florida Secretary of State’s office said Barahona had operated a business as C.J.’s Pest Exterminator, Inc., since March of 1998. That corporation was dissolved by the state last September, when he failed to file the proper state documents.

Barahona’s wife, Carmen, was holed up inside her parents Southwest Miami-Dade home with two of the couple’s four children, according to CBS4′s Gary Nelson. But the two children were removed from the home by child welfare officials.

The couple has four adopted children, ages 7 through 11, according to the Department of Children and Families. Those children are under DCF protective supervision at the grandparents home, according to DCF’s Mark Riordan.

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Jorge Barahona Accused Of Horrific Child Abuse Has Dead Daughter In His Truck

Jorge BarahonaThis is one of those stories that you wish would not get reported. Because this is the kind of story where the perp needs to be taken out to the Florida Everglades, dipped in chicken grease and towed very slowly by an airboat until the gators have had their fill.

These kind of scumbags have a special place in hell and instead of wasting taxpayer dollars on a trial they should just take terminate him. And it should not be a humane execution. I’m sorry, when it comes to kids, you should be punished accordingly. No judge, no jury…just a few hungry gators.

Jorge Barahona is a Florida exterminator and father of four children adopted from Florida’s foster care system has told police that a body found in the pest-control truck he was driving is one of them — his 10-year-old daughter, authorities said Wednesday.

Barahona, 53, already faces a charge of aggravated child abuse for injuries to the dead girl’s twin, Victor, who was also found in the truck, which was parked on the side of I-95 near West Palm Beach, Florida, officials said.

According to a probable-cause affidavit filed by the West Palm Beach Police Department, a roadside assistance ranger with the Florida Department of Transportation stopped to check the red Toyota pickup Monday around 5:30 a.m. and found the 10-year-old boy inside next to an open gas can.

The boy “appeared to be in respiratory distress and (was) trembling” and his clothing “was soaked with an unknown chemical,” the affidavit said.

The ranger then found Barahona on the ground beside the truck and called for help.

The boy was hospitalized in intensive care with severe burns to his abdomen, upper thighs and buttocks, the affidavit said. While examining the boy, doctors noted he had sustained previous injuries, including a broken collarbone, a broken arm, scarring to his buttocks and lower abdomen, and ligature marks on both wrists, police said.

After Barahona and his son were taken to a hospital, a worker decontaminating the truck discovered the body of the girl, wrapped in a plastic bag, the document said.

Barahona told police he was distraught over the death of his daughter, and had intended to commit suicide by dousing himself with gasoline and setting himself afire, the affidavit said. Barahona said he didn’t go through with his suicide plan because his son was with him, the document added.

“Basically, to paraphrase, he was stating that he placed his daughter in a plastic bag being distraught over her death,” West Palm Beach Police Spokesman Chase Scott told reporters. “He drove here from South Florida accompanied by his son, Victor. He then pulled off to the side of the road saying that he poured gas on his self, intending to light himself on fire. His son’s head was in his lap and he decided, after giving his son some sleeping pills, that he wasn’t going to do that.”

Barahona told police that he doused himself with gasoline and inadvertently got some on the boy, Police Capt. Mary Olsen said.

But, she added, the man’s story doesn’t add up — there was no gasoline on the boy. Instead, he was covered with another chemical whose composition had yet to be determined. “That’s why we’re still treating this as a hazmat (hazardous materials case),” she said.

Scott said the chemicals were so potent that staff caring for the boy at the hospital became ill as well, he said.

Victor, who was transferred Wednesday morning to a specialized burn unit at Miami’s Jackson Memorial Hospital, has not been able to talk to investigators because he is on a breathing tube, she said.

Olsen said police would decide how to charge Barahona further once the autopsy on his daughter determines her cause of death. Asked whether Barahona has expressed remorse, she said, “He feels remorse, but we’re not getting consistent statements with what we’re seeing in our evidence.” She added, “It’s a complex case.”

At a hearing Wednesday in Miami attended by Barahona’s wife, Carmen, a judge ordered that the remaining two children in the home be placed in foster care.

Florida’s Department of Children and Families had opened a child protection investigation within the past few days to look into a complaint involving the Barahona family, and it wasn’t the first such complaint, spokesman Mark Riordan said.

Reporters in the courtroom Wednesday heard tales of abuse, mainly concerning the twins, from state officials and experts. The caller to the child protection hotline in the latest case reported that the twins were routinely locked in a bathroom for long periods of time and had been bound with tape, the court heard. The story was corroborated by interviews with the other two children in the home, officials said in court.

An investigator told the court that she had showed up last Friday night at the family’s home but had not seen the children. Instead, she said, she had left the family’s house after speaking with Carmen Barahona, planning to return on Monday. Asked why she had not planned to return sooner, she said, “I’m not allowed to do investigations on a weekend.”

However, a spokesman for the department, John Harrell, said it is the job of investigators to follow through immediately or refer to someone else in the department to follow through when a matter is urgent.

The Catholic Church against adoption by singles

Vatican cardinal: Adopted children need both a father and a mother

The president of the Pontifical Council for the Family, Cardinal Ennio Antonelli, recently affirmed that adoption policies should prioritize “the good of the child, who needs both a father and a mother.”

Cardinal Antonelli’s comments came in response to a petition filed by the Supreme Court of Appeals in Italy requesting that Congress pass a law allowing the adoption of minors by single adults.

According to Italian law, only married couples can adopt children.

The Court of Appeals made the petition after a woman from Genoa requested the court legitimize her adoption of a Belarusian girl. The girl lived with the woman for two years in Russia and then in the United States, where the adoption was declared valid.

Although the ruling by the U.S. court was upheld by the Court of Appeals in Genoa in 2009, the mother is still subject to some limitations under the law.

Rabu, 16 Februari 2011

Even when a child finds a loving home with an adoptive family the circumstances surrounding that relationship are complex

Local Adoptee Shares Her Story at Watchung Booksellers

BY | Tuesday, Feb 15, 2011 11:00am | COMMENTS (5)

Montclair resident, adoption-advocate, and author Zara Phillips just released the American version of her adoption memoir, Mother Me, after having previously published it in her native England. It hit bookshelves here yesterday, Valentines Day.

Phillips’s book chronicles her journey to discover the truth about her birth and herself. Although Phillips knew she was adopted ever since early childhood, it was something that was never spoken about.

“Yes, you know, but don’t tell anybody,” Phillips recalled of the prevailing sentiment in 1964 when she was adopted. “I could never talk about being adopted.”

And, so, Phillips kept those feelings inside, never at liberty to discuss her conflicted and confusing emotions. “I didn’t feel right. I didn’t feel connected to anybody or anything. I really needed to know my story because in my head I thought I must be a mistake. I really felt my [biological] mother didn’t want me. I carried that into my teenage years.”

Years that are tumultuous for most became disastrous for Phillips. She began to act out, use drugs and alcohol and express her internal strife. “I had a terrible anger.” Phillips said. “It was rage, really.”

At the time neither Phillips nor her mother understood the root of her emotions and behaviors, and Phillips’s involvement in the 80’s London rock scene didn’t help provide any clarity.

It wasn’t until Phillips read the book, The Primal Wound, that she began to understand the dynamics of adoption. After reading the book she said she felt “a sense of relief that I wasn’t alone.”

At 22, Phillips put down the alcohol and drugs and stopped running from her feelings. She knew she needed to make a change. “I can’t move forward with my life until I know my story,” she realized. But she admits, “I was terrified to do it.”

More than 40 years after she was adopted, Phillips notes that while adoption has become more prevalent, many of the same issues still persist. She hopes sharing her story can illuminate some of the issues for all those involved in the adoption triad: the adoptees, the adoptive parents and the birth parents.

Phillips points out that even when a child finds a loving home with an adoptive family the circumstances surrounding that relationship are complex.

“Your child comes with another set of parents. Even if you don’t meet them, they are still around us. They are in the shadows.”

Those shadows, whether acknowledged or not, seem to hang over the head of the child as well as both sets of parents.

“Some people think, ‘You have a new mom and dad. What is there to complain about?’ But our first family we lost,” Phillips said of the emotional scars left on adoptees.

These scars cannot be healed by love alone according to Phillips. “Parents say, ‘I love this kid as my own, but the baby doesn’t come from the same place. The baby has a wound – the primal wound – because it was relinquished, which cannot be filled even with love.”

When Phillips became a mother herself, she began to gain an understanding of the situations both her mothers had faced as pieces of the adoption puzzle. It seemed that grief blanketed all three of the women. Phillips grieved over the loss of her first family as her adoptive mother grieved over never being able to give birth to a child herself while Phillips’s birth mother grieved over the shame of enduring an unwed pregnancy, the terror of laboring alone in a girls’ home and finally the enduring sadness of giving up a child.

“It’s complicated,” Phillips said of the bonds broken and formed by adoption. Undoubtedly an understatement, but one Phillips plans to bring some clarity to with her book. In doing so she hopes to help those involved to understand and accept the emotions involved. You can hear her story this Thursday at Watchung Booksellers.